No, Jack.

It's wrong for Harry to call an Asian 'Paki', if by doing so he intends to denigrate him and cause hurt.

It's wrong for you to call Harry an 'overprivileged toss-pot' if by doing so you intend to denigrate him and cause hurt.

It's wrong for someone to state on a public forum that someone else is illegitimate, if by doing so they intend to denigrate him and cause hurt.

It's wrong for someone to call someone else 'Fat Cunt' if by doing so they intend to denigrate him and cause hurt.

It's simply a case of consistency - and it's consistency that's missing from the attitudes of some of the posters on here. You can't decry abuse, then go on to be an abuser yourself.

I don't like any sort of abuse. And speaking as a former Fat Cunt, I had plenty.

IMHO and my final word. I've got a life.