actually I've had my share of problems too, though I hope I've acheived at least an existential status at this point, that is, the right of my posts to exist...sometimes I'm not sure of what constitutes appropriate mudcat humour and what doesn't and have reaped consequences..I've also felt a certain attitude towards guests, but there are very good reasons why I am a guest and not a member, details of which I shall not trouble you with. Not everyone is set up to have an instant cyber life. That being said, this is an excellent site with much intelligence and humour. And I always learn something.