Someone posted a an old piece on that recently, listing all the myriad of possibillities for women, and then ending with, "men: show up naked." I'm so visually oriented, about like an eleven year old, that that's almost fair where I'm concerned.

More seriously? Where to start?... As to matters of relationships: I'm someone who spent a lot of early years feeling unlovable. Realizing that a very lovely (in all kinds of ways) lady can actually love the heck out of me almost frightened me at first, but it has been very good for me.