Twas the dying days of our marriage when during another pointless argument, she,d said something along the lines of, "Well what have you learned? "Without a seconds thought, I replied," You can take a horse to water, but you can,t make it drink". It summed her up and killed the argument because we both started to laugh. That was twenty years ago and I still miss her; when I get my new glasses I,m hoping my aim will improve!