can't say I blame you, closet...it is always safest to be careful. Too bad, but that's the way of it.

(at a gathering I attend a lot, a nice guy who had been coming there for YEARS finally decided to come out of the closet and bring his partner ....well, the biggest issue was that the partner didn't DO folk music and was sort of bored....the rest of us just went.."hmmm...I guess I'm not really surprised"...and asked for another song. But here, with anonymous postings, it could be different.)