kat, I for one am well aware of the fact that their have been varying degrees of hurt in this whole business and I do not consider myself to have been personally injured which does make it easier for me to forgive although I am distressed that some people were really hurt, real damage was done to the forum and particularly that this did involve people who considered themselves friend of his.I have made my position clear, I neither ask Michael to leave or stay but state that I would be happy to see him start afresh. I appreciate that others may feel differently and do so with justifcation.
I do however feel that forgiveness is a personal thing and people should be free make that descsion with out attracting criticism from others.
Jon