In one or two of his books Joseph Wambaugh had a character called "Wadda ya mean Dean" because his name was Dean and he never seemed to fully understand what was going on around him, bright as he was, and he was always asking for an explanation from folks who were too involved to bother with an answer.

Well that's who I feel like around this issue. I keep hearing about all this bad behaviour that's happened, and I haven't seen any ... am I thick or just reading the wrong threads?