Michael, as TTCM and others, was neither the first, nor the only, and maybe not even the most frequent offender, and, even though he was hiding behind a made up name, it was the same name, or group of names, and you got to know what to expect.

The damaage is not so much from what was said, or even how cruel any individual post might have been, the damage comes from the psychological climate created by the repeated barrages of anonymous abuse, and finally, just by the threat of it.

Kat is right about the damage--more than anyone can see, and it is felt far heyond these threads--