It's just occurred to me - earlier in the thread I reacted about being called "a bully" by harpgirl, and there were a couple more exchanges with oter people apparently involving her.

But for all I know it wasn't her at all. And even if someone comes on posting as GUESTharpgirl and says it was, there's no way of knowing it's not some joker libelling her when she's not around the 'Cat for some personal reason.

And that's the damage this kind of stuff does to us. That, and trapping people into carrying a grudge. Life's heavy enough at times already without carrying grudges as well. Last grudge broke the camel's back.