OK so it looks like there are some knowledgeable people here regards mobility and stuff.

Little bit of thread drift coming up for some much needed advice.

I am into year 3 of Rheumatoid Arthritis which did not respond to the NHS approved treatment.

It affects feet, knees and hips and my arms and wrists are made weak from osteo arthritis in neck. So crutches are out of the question. I cannot get a scooter as we have no place to house it (1st floor flat).

I feel uncomfortable asking for Blue Badge (in UK, this is equivalent to disabled sticker fo car). But some times (more often now then ever) I literally have to pull myself up the stairs after day of work. My mobility is getting more and more restricted.

I don't want to go through the embarrassment of applying for Blue Badge only to be interviewed/tested on a day when I feel pretty good. Also as I don't drive, my partner does it all, I think I would be turned down as not having enough need.

Has anyone had to jump through hoops regards getting assistance or disability badge? Was it absolutely horrible experience?

I am a bit gun shy due to bad NHS experiences regards my treatment and reading horror stories aoubt people being denied blue badge who clearly had need.