VTam, one of the things here at Mudcat is we all have boiled over at some point. No worries...you really did it rather mildly and I think most of us know this has been a tough time for you. Thanks for sticking your toe back in, though. {{{hugs}}}

Now, as per Jeri's suggestion:

from this posting on, please post only updates. Any discussion/debates/etc. should be posted to the other thread. Thanks!