Clearly there are differences of opinion as to what's reasonable and where the onus lies for defining what's expected on a particular occasion. I can live with differences of opinion, and I can usually respect even those that I strongly disagree with.

However I find GUEST,Bruce Michael Baillie's "grow up and accept it you bunch of tossers and don't be so bleeding precious!" seriously offensive. Regardless of who holds what opinion, insults and name-calling won't help anyone.

Richard