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Thread #115854   Message #2624574
Posted By: GUEST,Guest from Sanity
05-May-09 - 09:30 AM
Thread Name: BS: Californians Oppose 'Prop 8' Gay Marriage Ban
Subject: RE: BS: Californians Oppose 'Prop 8' Gay Marriage Ban
Akenaton, Well, as I mentioned before, and I'm sure it makes sense now, or at least is clearly obvious, the tip off, when a person is being counseled, and they have issues, and it is not quite clear, even unto him/her, the tip off that it may be homosexual is, emotional immaturity....oh yeah, did I say that before?...absolutely....but then, what do I know???
Maybe, sometime I'll even break it down for ya'. The thing is, they really are not 'trapped' by it, I mean, in reality. It is something they impose on themselves, and keep themselves there, and though wishing sometimes, that they weren't, they resign themselves to it. The frustration to them, is you can't convince those WITHOUT those issues, of resentment, anger, and 'emotional focus', toward a parent, or parent figure, that we should adopt this behavior, as genetic, or the other sex 'trapped in my body' nonsense, and see it for what it is. It's just too much of a hard sell, for people who have a healthy outlook in life. That being said, I certainly am opposed to denying them their rights, and also opposed to calling what they do, marriage. If it weren't so tragic, it would be laughable!
By the way, as of yesterday, 60% of Americans disapprove of legalizing, same sex marriage, while 40% of those, would favor some sort of civil union. Hate to be the bearer of such bad tidings. Don't shoot the messenger.
Ake, you've been a good guy. I wish you all the best!
...now, about God..........
Warmest Regards,
GfS