They usually tell me, themselves. You just gotta know the path to draw it out. And by the way, there are, and were no targets
Personally, I'd rather talk about music! And another 'by the way', in two earlier posts, one of them, a long way back, I specifically, said that I didn't want to even broach the subject, unless the person was educated, about the topic. I even let it rest, for weeks!..but, at the same time, why let my friends, and fellow musicians bullshit each other?