VT, I think you have expressed some of my difficulties, ie You know the ways you learned something. Another way may feel right, eg. I liked the Pogues or wrong, eg. rap and I don't get on.

You need not want or belive you should stand in the way of approaches, after all, it came to us for free and with no terms, but but you seem to connect better with the way you learned and want others to share that enjoyment?