- "You don't just leave people alone" prompted a number of other people to remark on this quality in Andie."

Hey, wouldn't it be lovely if that outlook were adopted by schools over here in the UK and in the USA, in Andie's name.

I can see a whole website about your beautiful daughter being built around those words, Tam.

And YES, most *definitely* ask her father for those negatives, get those special moments right in front of you again.

You know, you should write a book about Andie. I think this thread is just the beginning of that book...and your Rainbow Daughter is helping you to start writing it.

"You Don't Just Leave People Alone"

Maybe that's your title...