Ahem!
Excuse me for pointing this out, this thread originally asked a question about what you would do with regards to a friend standing for something you did not have the same feelings about, and has seriously drifted to something quite different!
Daily Mail reader has now demanded answers to a different thing altogether, this should surely be on another thread!
If there is an answer requested it is to the first question, start another thread!!!!!
Cheers, Lucy