Tug,

My ex partner is chronically addicted to drugs.

She had an atrocious upbringing.

I feel huge sympathy for her, because her addiction has resulted in her losing her job, her friends and her child.

It is so powerful that she cannot dispense with it.

The consequence in her is utterly inappropriate behaviour which is why she is a danger to her own child.

She is unable to put hewr own child first.

This is an illness and i feel sorry for her.


But I have a much greater responsibility towards my daughter who's safety cannot be compromised.

So though I feel sorry for my ex, I can't allow a change of circumstances until she is able to confront her own problem.

I have to address my problem, which is that my daughters mum is a risk to her.


MBSGeorge may be very personable, but the party she has shacked up with is a danger to all of us in society.

Sometimes people go off the rails.

Many mothers have to swallow the fact that their child has turned into a danger to society.

They may still love their child, but they may realistically have to admit that their child should be in Jail.

Friends of MBSGeorge can admit it or not, but it will still be true, that she is loyal to racist views and to a party that believes in the racial superiority of 'pure' whites and who have a history of violence and aggression.

MBSGeorge knows this if she has read any of these threads but is unapologetic. She stands by her views.


My approach is, she may be loved, but while she does this she must be confronted.