Just read this through, hope that a few more good wishes will help.

One of my friends has just had a third tumour removed ... long story ...and I've been warned she's got more pipelines than a refinery in and out of her... you and your lovely friend are not alone in your suffering , and you ARE suffering, but this brilliant Mudcat world is with you. ((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))) to be delivered when you can!
Look after YOU! I've told my friends husband he needs to do the same.
Very best wishes
Hazel.