I don't know about LH but I do not believe anyone can point out that path for another person. I believe we each must find our own. Of course there are plenty of people out there who, for an exorbitant fee, will offer to help. "Nobody else can do it for you" but the odd hint or example might be helpful. "This I know experientially" is, for me, about all that counts - after all the reading and talking, etc. That is where I stand.