"Do I set my sights on getting up to 170 on the 'nome playing 2 notes for every click to get Whiskey up to tempo?"

Assuming it's another reel, yes, but the optimum speed for any tune is determined by the player and the instrument. Do it as it sounds and feels best to you. As a general rule for dance tunes, when listeners' feet tap as you play it, you're doing it right.