as usual you have taken what i have said wrongly.

i don't want to ban anyone from getting married. i was wondering why you were not up in arms about straight people who sleep around, there are plenty of them just as there are gay folks.

it seems to me that the consequences for hetro's that have unsafe sex is somewhat larger becaause of pregancy.

surely the child who has a child is more likely to get into problems.

being a parent is such a big job,the fact that you are responsible for how another person turns out is THE biggest responsablity ever.

i really do worry that we have become complasent about this.    before someone says that i am being bigoted on this i am aware that alot of these young parents do a fantastic job, the ones who have their families in particular, but what about those who don't have any support? i am 31 and still couldn't handle it.

there are worse things than having many sexual partners or gay marriage, maybe we should concentrate on that.

anyway that is me done for now

take care all

jade x x