SKARPI: Yes many innocents die every day, but to mourn the passing of one individual shows our humanity and doesn't make the innoccents deaths any less important.

DeG: Yes many victims of abuse recover and lead meningful lives. One the other hand many VICTIMS do not and their life and those near them are blighted forever.

He was indeed "weird" towards the end, but mental instability manifests in many ways. He loved his children and they must be suffering dreadfully without seeing the dirt dug up again.