the military and being gay is one of the big differences between UK and US here it is not a problem.
i would think that most soldiers have photos of loved ones back at base, why should it matter if it is a picture of someone of the same sex or not?

it does not cause a problem here and i do not understand why it would do anywhere else.

i am not sure about the police force or firefighters but i would think that if the military can make it work then so could they.

take care all

jade x x