Lilly, I completely agree with you. Being a trad musician and ceilidh dancer I couldn't possibly (I don't think ... getting dangerously certain here) be with a woman who doesn't dance - or would at least try a ceilidh - and wouldn't at least *try* to like trad English etc. music. But a folky dating site would be a minority within a minority, so hardly an earner for a dating company.

I see your problem - the same problem I have: how to meet someone with the same interests who is *also* personally compatible.