As Richard says, this is Mick and Sue's event, and having enjoyed their hospitality at several Knockholts, I would not want my continued presence to be a source of embarassment or discomfort to them and will therefore not be going next week. I admit to being truly shocked at the level of vicious hypocrisy and intimidating bullying evident on this and the FaF threads - and all in the name of tolerance, diversity and liberty