Hi Sue

I agree with Tootler above when he says : "Don't believe those who tell this instrument is easy and that one is difficult. With all instruments there are times when it seems difficult and times when it seems hard."

I picked up playing the melodeon with no difficulty at all (although I know others who really struggle with it) and regularly use it to accompany myself, as well as playing tunes. It really is down to you and what you yourself find easy (well easier). I would say try as many different instruments as you can if you don't know what to learn, then having made your choice stick with it. Try not to chop and change once you have started - it can lead to confusion.

Also practice makes perfect - its far better to play for 5-10 mins at a time, at least once a day, rather than doing one hour long session once a week. It may feel that your not doing anything that way but your muscles will be 'learning' automatically and pretty soon it will become automatic. I think someone else made this point but it's worth repeating.

Rock Climber : there are some excellent video tutorials out there for not much money (£10-£15) which are great for beginners/intermediaries. Well worth visiting a decent music shop to see their selection and hopefully they should be able to give good advice too.

Learning an instrument is better than winning the Lottery - and is a lot more likely to happen!

Good luck to you both

cheers
Ged