Well Crow Sister... I guess you have assembled some sort of personal identity whether good or bad..... but what the heck has Bunyan got to do with anything??? You are.... perhaps... quaint or a little old fashioned in your ideas.... but I guess at least they are your own ideas..... I just prefer to go with Gods ideas ... they seem to suit me more than adequately. So far His word (the Bible... the New Testament particularly) has given me direction in my life... allowing me also to be led by The Holy Spirit by choice......... the helper that Jesus promised....... I am really happy with my life and my lifestyle... are you....????.... no... are you really??? What is the point of your existence? Why are you here???   I know why I am... do you???
Best wishes whatever.... Mike.
PS... you think calling a pagan friend Christian is funny??? mmmmmm is it really?