I would not put a Nazi flag on a grave. I would put a German or Austrian flag on the grave and I would honor the person there, not knowing if he or she was an evildoer or someone who was born on the wrong side of the river.

The meaning of the American Civil War is probably crystal clear to those with finely honed filters. To those who don't, it is murky and horrible and brave all mixed in together..bad intentions mixed with good, bad people mixed with good, bad causes mixed with a desire to not have one's neighbors slaughtered. mg