Anyone who thinks being gay is a choice doesn't have a very good memory of their early teens. If you are straight, when you hit 12 or 13 or whenever your sexual awakening was, was there really any chance that you wouldn't be obsessing about members of the opposite sex? What makes you think anyone else is any different?

McGrath, please get your logic in better order. Comparing sexual orientation to being a smoker or not being a smoker is really dumb. I'll ask you outright: Do you think most gay people choose to be gay?