We have two.Smokey,a football-shaped grey is partial to my Wife.(He will have nothing to do with me except at mealtime). Orry, a yellow Manx, is mine;at least mine is the lap he can most often be found on and I am the one he bites (yes, BITES) the least.He doesn't like to be messed with. I'm the only one who dares try to pet him if he hasn't indicated-via head butts-that he wants attention. Both are quite vocal and will not use the cat door if there is a human around to open the regular one.
They both sleep on the foot of the bed. Wife and I sort of scrunch together in the middle.