Ebbie...I'm talking tongue-in-cheek in that post fer chrissake! ;-)

A "bumpit" is the thing that you put under your hair at the crown of the head in order to puff it up some. Scroll up to Alice's post at 16 Nov 09 - 10:15 PM (above) and you will find a link to the explanation of how the bumpit works. It looks to me from Sarah's hairdo that she is using one.

If it's any comfort, I've always preferred smart women to those not so smart. It helps if they're attractive too, of course...but they've got to be smart or I'm simply not interested.