I know the song and it's in the DT archives (with slightly different words from the ones I learned from the New Lost City Ramblers and Howie Burson). I used to know who the author/original singer was (brothers?) but I can't remember now. So can anyone tell me?

also I once added a verse to point out that it's more often the wife than the husband that's at the wrong end of the stick, so I wonder if anyone else has verses to update this song?