I think the best part of Christmas is the chance to establish a sense of community with family and friends. Any excuse for a good party is OK by me. The carols are fun to sing.
They are musically quite interesting. (I don't believe a word of the religious part though).

Why pour cold water on a fun holiday? Just forget about Walfart and the stores and have a good time.

I like the Winter Solstice idea and the Yule log that burns for days. I think it can be a lot of fun for kids and that is what is really important.

And the lights. It beats burning down trees to bring back the sun. They are lovely to
look at.