"When someone uses a word or phrase in the heat of the moment it seems to me to reveal a mindset that dwells secretly in that place, whether it's misogynist, criminal, violent or whatever."


Oh please, spare us the cod psychology. To imply that anyone who uses expletives has some sort of personality disorder is grossly offensive to those like me who find them a perfectly acceptable adjunct to everyday speech, in the heat or the moment or otherwise. And no, I am none of the things you mention.