"Some folks cannot remember the words to songs so they have a piece of paper handy to remind them. Nothing wrong with that. Some folks cannot sing in tune but it's the taking part that matters -"

As a singer who does manage to remember the words without a crib sheet, and one who has to work very hard at learning the tune, I feel rather insulted by people who can't be bothered to do either.

As a member of the audience I much prefer to listen to people who know the words and can hold a tune. If you're a beginner good luck to you, but please put the work in in private, and get some advice and feedback from other singers, before you inflict yourself on me!