If I had better typing skills and 2 or 3 days, I'd try to mediate this jousting match between Michael & Ebbie and Catspaw and katlaughing..and Jeri....(having met all EXCEPT Michael & katlaughing in person)... but since I don't have time or typing skills, I'll just say that everything I know tells me that they are ALL excellent, concerned, intelligent folk who happen to be different and have different ways of expressing things.

In my just over 13 years here, this is one of the stranger bits of back & forth I have read. ....and I probably shouldn't even say this much, but hey... I'm strange also!