Answer to Rapaire- there are many places with few or none of the obnoxious types. Get maps and look for some of the places I named above. Even 'high' season; most of the sun-seekers keep to the well-known resorts, esp. Waikiki. Even downtown Hololulu, west of Waikiki, gets few tourists.
-Maui. Take the drive from Kahului around the south coast to the east end at Hana. Not for the foot to the floor driver!