Chanteyranger: I too pass along my condolences My mother died 35 years ago and my father 29 years ago. They are still missed. Your advice is sound and I hope those with parents or relatives they have issues with will take a long hard look and say "To hell with the BS" and mend fences. Life is too short for hard feelings and there is never enough tome to put things like that off. Kindest reguards, Neil