I've done that with two cats, Maggie, and imo, it is better to have them put down. I know it's hard, but depending on how your cat reacts, the iv can be a huge stress and it made me feel as though I was prolonging the inevitable by being a terrible bully. Both cats hated it, hid out and just wanted to be left alone.

Here's a hug and a reminder to breath as you go through the process with your kids and all and while you write to keep food on the table.:-)

luvyakat