Maybe the wigs aren't for you especially if you feel you have a dead animal on your head - sorry but that made me laugh.

I don't come from strong stock. Most of the women in my family drink themselves into an early grave when things get tough. So - as I mentioned before - I throw things to get past anger, frustration, sorrow, loss. Do whatever works for you and results in a healthy future.

Moderated sobbing is good. Don't know exactly how you can screw your hair - but whatever works, girl, go for it.

As Jacqui said, we are all here with you.
And, Bobert, everyone once in a while you bring a tear to my eye. That was beautiful.