"My son has nothing to do with you, or with this discussion."

Well, of course he has. You're the mother of a son, so what you teach him is at least as important as what any mother of girls teaches her daughters. You've been ranting and screeching about what the mothers of young women ought to be teaching their daughters, and how all young women are sluts and whores, but when it comes down to it, women are not the aggressors in 99% of rape cases. Men are. So I hope you teach your son, repeatedly and firmly, that NO means NO.