"Lizzie: show me where I said women do not need to be responsible please in any of my posts."

I've just trawled through all 7 pages, mp. (Yikes!)

You are absolutely correct, you did NOT state that, and I therefore apologise to you unreservedly.

We agree on more than we disagree, in actual fact, but the one thing we're going to have to agree to disagree on is that I feel there *are* some scenarios where blame/responsibility should be shared, because the actions of one person, can lead to the reactionn of the other.