Jeddy,

I think you are absolutely right.

I think that these horrific ideas first get heard by most young people in the playground.

School bullies often come from abusive homes, and they will no doubt be asserting the same morality at school as they see asserted at home.

Girls negotiating the fine line between being a "slag" and being a "prude" - not to mention the countless other ways in which they are pressurized and bulllied by each other and by boys.

In my experience, the girls who dressed straight have always been the easiest and the filthiest in bed.

The ones who dress to shock were often doing so to rebel and to hide their insecurities, and took a lot more convincing.



Lizzie, all your "judgemental stuff" might be useful id it were grounded in reality and not just your fantasy of what young women "get up to" these days.