A man should have control over his penis. To suggest that men cannot is to do them disservice. It's an insult to suggest that men, when confronted with NO, or without permission for sex, would blindly carry on regardless. Rapists do that. Men do not. That is not to say I think it's okay for a woman to deliberately lead a man on with no intention of sex right up to penetration. But I also strongly bleive that a woman has a right to be able to change her mind (as does the man)

Men may feel peeved, they may even have the right to be peeved if they have been truly 'led up the garden path', but they have no right to sex. The majority of men (the non-rapists) know that and respect that. Only a rapist would push it further surely?

No-one can condone rape.

No more than one can condone a man being raped by a woman.

Rape is inexcusable. Period!

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