"Depends on the bloke."

You mean it depends on whether he's a rapist or not?

So if you bring a rapist home you deserve to be raped, but if you bring a non rapist home you don't.

Liikewise when you agree to go to his rooom.

How do you know who is a rapist and who isn't until you have been raped?

does inviting somebody back for a cup of tea say something different to inviting them back for a coffee?


It looks like you are agreeing that the the deciding factor in rape is not the womans foolishness, but whether or not the man is a rapist.


It would obviously be very naive and shortsighted to go back to a mans room for a drink when you only know him from the edited posts he has made online, but do you really think that would make her blameworthy if the guy turned out to be a rapist?