Like mousethief, I thought she'd already named who it was, but I don't remember who and I don't really care, but I do like the song!

I loved it and YES I've known several someones it describes perfectly esp. at the time it came out!

It was I had some dreams they were clouds in my coffee
Clouds in my coffee... as in he killed her dreams, nothing but gray skies, clouds and rain (tears) at least that's the way I always thought of it.