Women should not pretrust men they do not know. They should not let them into their homes alone. They should not accept dates that involve transportation with unknown men (unless known to others). Mothers should watch their children around various relatives and certainly around mother's boyfriends. We have to be alert and protective of ourselves and younger and more vulnerable, and frankly, more attractive women..and certainly teens and children.

They will live the kind of life women have always had to live..to be aware, to be vigilant, to avoid many scenarios that most of the time would be perfectly safe but sometimes are not..scenarios that have been known to various cultures and societies for millenia. I like men, I not only trust most of them, I revere some of them for how wonderful they are. But I am not going to go into certain circumstances with them. mg