Andrea, you're gonna' have to forgive me here because I rarely say anything so sappy as this but I can't think of how else to say it........

The way you handled (and are still handling) Ian's death has been a lesson for all of us and even inspirational. I know that sounds really sacharrine and a bit goofy but I don't know how else to say it. I'm sure its been more than just a little tough but everything you've done has celebrated his life in some beautiful ways.

I am sure there are times when you are lower than low but you have created an atmosphere of wonderful memories that is remarkable. The two of you raised a great family and I am, simply put, very fortunate to know you.

I dunno' if this place has ever helped you, but you have helped all of us.

Spaw