Susan,
I don't want to wait until the day of to know if someone is going to go or not. Yes, chemo buds are good but truth be told, it's still a scary thing to go to and having a friend along makes the whole world better, you know?

A goal for every 28 days? I have issues setting a goal for each day...can't focus that much at a time...chemo fog/chemo brain...whatever you want to call it. I have no idea what I want to accomplish in the next 28 days other than to not get sick with a cold or something like that. Also, it's sometimes..ok...most times hard to accomplish the goals I set for the day because my idea of what I want to get done and what my actual energy level will allow haven't had a meeting of the minds just yet....I can't remember a day lately when I did everything I wanted to do/get finished. I've learned to say, oh well...it will be there tomorrow.

And the last part...I'm not sure what you mean.

Kat,
I'm not sure that people back out because they are afraid...maybe that's true. I know I didn't want to walk down the chemo halls looking at people who I thought would be all pale, thin, groaning in pain and close to death...I didn't want to see it...so maybe you are right.

Maybe I'm just having a bad day. I'm tired. I'm really kind of put off with people not following through and just want to say the hell with it...I'll do it myself. Add crabby and unreasonable to the list.

Susan....can you elaborate more about the list and intentionality thing?

Michelle